can a guys ex girlfriends remain just friends with him? i say yes let me know what you think. but on with my problem.
Me and 2 of my ex's go to the same college and up until now have been kind of friends with benefits with one of them. well one day a few weeks ago will call her x called me up and asked me to meet her someplace and i said im pretty sure i can do that. then a few hrs later H called me up and asked me to spend time with her (shes the friend with benefits) i told her i was meeting x and she told me that i should break the meeting with x to see her. well i thought about it for a few days and stupidly broke my meeting with x. of course an even more stupid thing i did was i didnt give x the truth about what i was doing so right there i betrayed a friendship but i thought about it and realized what i had done was wrong but couldnt change it. so i had my meeting with H it went well just hung out talked and watched a movie. well the other day H told x what i had done which i knew was wrong so x questioned me and i told her that i did lie to her and was very sorry for it. but H had betrayed my trust in her as a friend so right now and possibly for ever i will not speak to H but x is hurt and i know this so she is talking with one of her other friends who is also a friend of all of us. she has given her the advice to back away from me and also given the same advice to me and H well i dont want to but i feel x has taken that advice because today we were supposed to meet and as we were going by each other at a distance i looked at her smiled and waved and got nothing in return of course this was at college so now im feeling really hurt and i am a very emotional guy and wanted to break out in tears over what feels like a ruined friendship cause i screwed up can anyone give me advice on regaining a friendship with x thankyou in advance
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Hello Mr. D, I just went through your article and feel that though X was hurt at your behaviour, she should have given you another chance since you had owned up to her and admitted your mistake and said sorry. I really appreciate your gesture but since she didn,t and relied on someone else,s advice, then I would suggest that its better for u to give her up as well because she really doesn,t know the meaning of true friendship. We are all humans and can make mistakes and realising that mistake and owning up to it is a very rare quality (and hard to find these days) which you certainly have in plenty. Well done! keep it up....and stay away from H if you want to keep out of trouble!
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